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SAYING ‘FUCK IT’ HELPS. IT REALLY DOES. 

John & Gaia have been running Fuck It Retreats in Italy for 10 years.  They wrote the international bestselling Fuck It books.
They live with their sons near the beach in Italy – spending their time walking on the beach and helping people around the world find freedom through a brilliant profanity.

WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF F**K IT

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We are John & Gaia. We said ‘F**k It’ to our careers in London and escaped to Italy in 2004.

We led our first F**k It Retreat in 2005.

We then wrote the bestselling F**K IT BOOKS (600,000 sold in 25 languages).

We have 1 million followers on Facebook.

All because… F**K IT HELPS… It really does. Saying F**k It relaxes us, helps us let go, do more what we please and feel more free.

Just say it now, to something that’s bothering you or causing you pain… And feel the RELEASE and the FREEDOM.

HOW F**K IT ARE YOU?

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THE BESTSELLING F**K IT BOOK – 500,000 AND COUNTING

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F**K IT, SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED 1-TO-1 HELP

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Some Popular F**k It Videos for Your Delectation

The Original F**k It Video

About ‘F**k It’ being a spiritual way – we created this video for the release of the first book back in 2008.

It gained half a million views pretty quickly.

The Current F**k It Book

This is for the book ‘F**k It – Do What You Love’.

It’s a message from aliens to humankind – encouraging us to do what we love.

 

Shocking F**k It Retreats Video

We still get complaints about this one – it features our boys (eight at the time) talking about how tough life is and how ‘F**k It helps you survive.

 

‘Face Your Fear’ Video

This is an extract from the ‘F**k It Therapy’ book, set to one of John’s F**k It tracks.

We all get scared, this is how F**k It can work around that fear.

 

The F**k It Blogs

Happy Resurrection Day

We wanted to share some thoughts around 'resurrection' and looked up 'Easter'... and alternative names for today are 'Pascha', which sounds like our Italian 'Pasqua' (as it has a Latin root) and 'Resurrection Sunday'. So, Happy Resurrection Sunday. And, for the many...

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The Top Way to Sort Stress

In this series of blog posts, we've looked at the effects of our stress response on our health and our Top 3 Anti-Stress techniques. But to trump even those, this last post is about the TOP WAY to sort stress. So here’s a truism that may not surprise you – You tend...

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Top 3 Anti-Stress Techniques

In the last blog post we looked at how harmful our stress response can be to us (very harmful!). So let's look at the Top 3 Anti-Stress Techniques. Straight in at Number 3... What are you stressing about? Make a list. Everyone’s list is different. Something that...

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The Top 3 Effects of Stress

As you shake off the stress of the week, here's a little reminder of the effects of stress and why it's worth trying to experience less in the first place. We’ve called this ‘the top 3 effects of stress’ as if it’s something you’d like, something that it would be...

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Prepare to Laugh your Socks Off

Oh my, if you haven't seen this clip already, you must... CRINGEY HILARIOUS BBC LIVE INTERVIEW CLIP I watched it several times yesterday, cringing and giggling. Then when Leone (one of our sons) woke up and told me to watch this video with these kids, blah blah, I...

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Are You Mentally Well?

Mental health is talked about a lot more than it used to be. Celebrities will now talk about depression and mental health issues in a way that they wouldn't have before. Who is in that photo? This boy became a famous and much-loved man who's been very open about his...

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Dealing with Trump Anxiety, Part 1

Whoah, we’re only 2 weeks in. How are you feeling? Every day, every news item, every tweet, every Facebook feed brings something more to feel scared and anxious about. And, let’s not kid ourselves – these are dangerous times. Most of us are observing that and feeling...

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How to Slow Down during this Speedy Week

How are you doing - a few days before Christmas? It's a funny old period - usually so RUSHED before Turkey Day - it's a real Speedy Week. And then a series of empty days. If only we could scoop some of the time from after Christmas and apply it to this week. So, I was...

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Nico Rosberg’s F**k It Moment

So Nico Rosberg has retired from Formula 1 - just 5 days after becoming world champion. It was a shock to most people. And I listened carefully to what he said when he announced it - "I've decided to follow my heart and that's what my heart tells me." And... "It just...

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Is Donald Trump a Positive Pig?

I've been thinking a lot about positivity recently. And about Mr. Trump (like we all have). And whatever you think of him, you have to take your (baseball) hat off to him for his optimism and self-confidence. It seems that nothing could knock that man, or dent his...

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Something You’ll Suddenly Start Noticing

  Don't you just love those things that you hadn't noticed before, then someone mentions it, and you notice it all the time? This might be one of those.  Well, in truth, I've only shared this observation with Gaia, and she's not yet confirmed its universal...

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Are You Stupid?

Yesterday, I was doing the washing-up after dinner and picked up (and washed) the lid of an ice-cream carton (you know what a gooey mess that can be), as I thought it was finished and I could then drop it into the plastic recycling. Twenty minutes later, as I'm...

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